admin Pros: Extremely strong vibrations; four intensities and four patterns; can be used while charging
Cons: Not waterproof; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; gets loud on higher intensities; may be too large or heavy for some users
The Best Sex Toy with a Sense of Humor: Clone-A-Willy
Materials: Silicone
How to Use: Refer to the included instructions–they are far more complex and in-depth than we’re able to get into here.
If the name “Clone-A-Willy” makes you laugh, good! You have a pulse. It’s completely ridiculous and nothing but fun, so if you want to give this as a gag gift, by all means. But it actually does a pretty good job cloning a willy. Think of all the doors (and orifices) that will open. This stuff is supposed to be fun, remember?
Pros: Creates a lifelike copy of any penis; fun process to do together
Cons: Vibrator uses disposable batteries; “cloning” process can be messy and tricky; may not work for very large or very curved penises; material may be too firm for some users
The Best Positioning Aid: Liberator Wedge
Materials: Microfiber/nylon (cover), polyester (lining), and polyurethane foam (core)
How to Use: Position it however you want during sex or masturbation. When finished, zip off the microfiber cover and wash it by hand or by machine.
Dr. Reed recommends this comfy foam wedge for couples who need a little help with positioning during sex, whether that’s due to lowered mobility or weaker knees from aging or injury, or just wanting a different angle or depth of penetration. Tuck it under your bed between sessions for discreet storage.
Pros: Helps in achieving more pleasurable angles; great for people with disabilities, chronic pain, flexibility issues, etc.; machine-washable cover; moisture-resistant liner
Cons: Large and potentially hard to store; expensive for what it is
The Most Versatile Vibrator: Unbound Bender
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Bend the toy into your desired shape. Use the toy’s one button to turn it on or off and to cycle through its settings. Apply water-based lubricant to the toy before inserting it vaginally.
“This is a classic go-to for couples of all gender and sexual identities,” Ashford says. It’s a vibrator with a bendable core that can be adjusted into just about any shape or angle you can imagine. Put it on any external spot that craves vibration.
Pros: Versatile shape for internal or external stimulation; strong vibrations; can be bent into your ideal shape to hit the G-spot better; four vibration intensities and six vibration patterns; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Buzzy/surface-level vibrations; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; not anal-safe
The Best Oscillator: Zumio X
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Turn the toy on with the power button and adjust its intensity with the other two buttons. Apply it to the clitoris or anywhere else you want pinpointed stimulation.
This clit-focused toy uses “oscillations” instead of vibrations, creating a sensation that seems to resonate deeper into your skin and can even prompt more powerful orgasms. “The design of the Zumio vibrators are a bit odd at first glance—it has a toothbrush-like appearance,” Ashford notes, “but it is more than just a clit stimulator. You could use (it) on other sensitive spots such as the nipples.” It comes with its own little charging dock, too, which is cute and convenient.
Pros: “Elliptical rotation” motion can cause less desensitization than traditional vibration; slim shape fits well between bodies during sex; eight speeds; travel-friendly; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Shape may be too pinpointed for some users; takes an absurdly long time to charge (16 hours)
The Best Vibrating Butt Plug for Beginners: Unbound Shimmy
Materials: Silicone
Battery Life: 2 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lubricant to the toy before inserting it. Hold down the power button for three seconds to turn the toy on or off. Use the same button to cycle through the toy’s settings.
If you or your partner wants to explore prostate stimulation, and you feel like you’ve got regular butt plugs down, pick up a vibrating butt plug like this one. Ashford tells us, “I think you’ll be surprised at the type of pleasure you are able to unlock.” Vibrations are even more stimulating than the pressure provided by a non-vibrating butt plug, and the vibrations can even help relax the muscles of the anus in preparation for anal sex or pegging if you’re into that.
Pros: Beginner-friendly small size; looped handle makes it easy to insert and remove; 5 vibration speeds and five patterns; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best Panty Vibrator: Lovense Ferri
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: About 3 hours
How to Use: Hold down the power button for three seconds to turn the toy on or off. Use the same button to cycle through its settings, or connect it to the Lovense app and control it that way.
Tuck this magnetic panty vibe into your underwear, or have your partner do so, and connect it to Lovense’s app via Bluetooth. Then you can control the vibe with your phone, whether the person wearing it is sitting across the dinner table from you or halfway around the world.
Pros: Magnetic design keeps toy anchored in your underwear; strong and rumbly vibrations; Bluetooth-compatible; can be used long-distance; waterproof
Cons: Magnetic cap is easy to lose (although it does come with one replacement cap); can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
The Best All-in-One Bondage Kit: Sportsheets Under-the-Bed Restraints System
Materials: Polypropylene, polyester, nickel-free metal, and ABS plastic
How to Use: Slide the connector strap under your mattress and attach the other straps and cuffs to it at all four corners of the bed, and use the cuffs as desired. If you need to be discreet, you can tuck the cuffs under the mattress between uses.
Experimenting with bondage doesn’t have to be intimidating! This restraints kit attaches to your bed, is easy and quick to set up, and can be tucked away quickly if you have guests coming over. It comes with two wrist cuffs and two ankle cuffs, so you can put your partner into a variety of different spread-eagle positions for some kinky fun.
